Good morning,

In October I went on a first date with someone I had met through a silly dating app.

We decided to go for a coffee and a walk in Central Park on one of those perfect early fall days in NYC that always seem to feature in romantic comedies.

I met my date, "Donna", in front of the coffee shop. After greeting each other we went inside to order our coffee.

Like most coffee shops, the background music was upbeat and pleasant. As we were standing in line, Donna said "Oh, I see you like to dance."

I think I was more shocked than she was because I didn't realize that I was dancing along to the music.

The fact that I was dancing was remarkable for two reasons.

First, I am not one who is prone to fits of dancing in public. Second, under normal circumstances I would have been a little more self-conscious being on a first date and meeting someone I was trying to impress.

The reason I was dancing in public
After Donna and I said our goodbyes at the end of the date, I jumped on the ferry and headed back to my neighborhood. As we speeded down the East River and I was soaking up the fall sunshine, I thought about how I had danced in public on a first date.

I pondered, "Hmmmm... Not self-conscious at all. Why was that? And if I wasn't feeling self-conscious, what was I feeling?"

And then it hit me!

I was the thing I am always striving to be. I felt comfortable in my own skin!

It is funny that it took me a little while to work that out, because it has pretty much been my primary goal of tapping for the last decade.

I don't want to be perfect.

I don't want to get everything right.

I don't even want unfathomable success.

Those would all be nice of course, BUT for a long time my primary stated goal has been: "to be comfortable in my own skin".

Here's what being comfortable in my own skin means to me:

• I am not worried about what other people think of my worth
• I am not worried about circumstances I do not control
• I am not worried about getting anything exactly right
• I recognize my own worth and value outside the work I do and actions I take
• I am holding myself to the standards I set for myself, not the standards set by others
• I am able to be comfortable with what I do well, and what I don't
• I am able to approach new situations and opportunities with curiosity and not fear
• I am humble enough to know I don't know everything
• I am an eager learner
• I can be fully present in the moment and enjoy it for what it is, regardless of what else is going on in my life

And that explains why I was randomly dancing in a coffee shop!

Because of all the personal work I have been doing on letting go of all the unuseful stories in my subconscious mind, my life is so much better.

The First Action, Best Action Membership
This is why I have created the First Action, Best Action Membership program.

I wanted to offer you a way to move beyond tapping occasionally in order to feel a little better, to using tapping as a tool to uplevel your life so that you too feel more comfortable in your skin.

You will have access to live monthly classes where I will teach you how to get the most out of your tapping and see its impact in your daily life. Every week you will receive a small teaching and tapping tool, which will take less than five minutes a day to implement, to help you take steady, consistent small steps towards your goals. You also have the opportunity every month to join a live Zoom to ask me questions about anything tapping related and we also do a lot of one-on-one tapping on those calls.

You can join the First Action, Best Action Membership program in one of two ways (and receive a great box of goodies on joining to help you remember to tap more).

Monthly Membership costs $50/month, with the first month free, so there is no risk to you. You can cancel at any time.

You can also join for the full year. For a single payment of $500, Annual Membership is the best value option as you receive 12 months for the price of 10, free shipping and handling for your welcome kit, and you will be able to attend a special live Mindset Expansion Day exclusively for those who sign up for annual membership (a $297 value, free).

Click here to join now: https://home.tappingqanda.com/faba-sign-up

The moment you sign up you will have immediate access to a number of training resources, including the two most popular Art of Delivery Monthly classes from the last two years.

The opportunity to be a founding member of the First Action, Best Action program is only open for a limited time because I want to be sure that my members get the best possible service and the personalized attention they deserve. Registration closes at midnight January 1st, and we won't be opening enrollment up again until April at the earliest. So don't miss this opportunity!

Are you ready?
The question is, "Are you ready to be supremely comfortable in your own skin?"

Do you want to feel so comfortable with who you are in the world that you might just start dancing for no other reason than it feels good in the moment?

Do you want to make steady, incremental steps on your healing and transformation journey so that you are not only putting in the work, but you are enjoying long term results that last?

I have been working on the First Action, Best Action program for months and I can't wait to share it with you!

Join me here: https://home.tappingqanda.com/faba-sign-up

If you have any questions about the program, simply reply to this note and I will get right back to you,

Gene

PS: Imagine what it would be like just to be happy with who you are and be able to make the authentic choices that will create a life you love. Join me on that journey: https://home.tappingqanda.com/faba-sign-up