[Tapping/EFT Q&A] - Why I Do This Site (a response to a reader critique)

Published: Mon, 11/30/09

 


Dear ,

I received a very interesting comment on the blog this week and I thought it would be helpful for everyone to read my response. I personally am very open to critique of my work. There have been a number of very critical e-mails that I received over the years that have improved the way I work and improved the quality of the site.

I value the fact that you take your time to read and listen to the things I created. Therefore, I think it is very important that we are on the same page about the resource and service I provide. I don't want to mis-represent myself.  Here is the comment in its entirety [sic'ed]:

Gene,
I'm sorry, but I find that these so-called "bonuses" as well as other podcasts, are just too short and gives me the impression of being teased in order to get me to buy your products.

I feel that as a practioner of EFT and someone that states you really want to help people, you would offer more in order to really help, but, instead you just really want to help yourself financially by taking advantage ( like so many other EFT "experts" are doing.

I know you probably won't post any negative remarks, like mine, so I'm copying them just in case I get to the point where I want to expose people that fraudulantly project they're help to others through their EFT "expertise".

I hope I'm wrong about this ( and you ) but this is what I'm perceiving about your site, podcasts, and free sessions, at the moment.
Maybe you can do a tapping session on that.
John


Here is my response as it appears in the comment sections of the web site.

John,

Thanks for taking the time to stop by the site and comment on the services I provide. Here is how I would respond to your criticism.

1) The amount of "useful" free content on the site.
Personally, I think there is a great deal of very useful free information on the site. Currently there are over 150 free articles and podcasts. By no means do I believe that I have total insight when it comes to every topic. I spend time every week improving my craft and knowledge so I can share more with my reader and my clients.

Even with that being said I believe there is a great deal of very useful information that can be used right away from the most beginner tapper to those who have been doing this for years. I would invite you to check out the "Top 9 Articles/Topics" I believe this the best of the best from the site.

2) If you truly wanted to help people you would give away more stuff and not just be a tease
I make no bones about the fact that I am selling products and services. This is stated very clearly on the site and in the welcome letter when you join my mailing list. I don't offer session and product just for the fun of it. This is part of my lively hood.

Doctors, dentists, and auto mechanics help people and we happily pay for their service and expertise. We pay them because they make our lives easier and better. As a tapping practitioner it is no different. Yes, my goal is to help people (just like it is a doctors goal to help people), but I need to do it in such a way so that I can make a living at it. If I am unable to make a living then I will move on to work where I can make a living. At that point I would be helping no one with my tapping experience.

Yes, I do provide the free resources on my site as a way of demonstrating my expertise. My hope is that when my listeners and readers come to an issue that is too big for them to manage on their own that that would consider hiring my to help them to archive the health and success they want.

The majority of the people who visit my site (over 98%) never buy a product or a session from me. They simple take the resources that are useful and add them to their wellness toolbox. I am very happy they are able to get something from the site.

3) Turn the dial to the right
One of my favorite radio personalities always says, "If you don't like our show, then just turn the dial to the right." I have come to realize that I can't be all things to all people. I do the best that I can with the site. I know the site isn't perfect, but it is a labor of love and something I enjoy doing a great deal. Almost all of the resources on the site are offer free of charge. If the site isn't serving you then you don't have to come back.

There are lots of and of really wonderful tapping sites on line (many of which I have learned a great deal from). I hope you find a place that you feel like your needs are being met.

Thanks for taking the time to write me.

Gene




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Gene Monterastelli
Gene Monterastelli is a Baltimore based EFT practitioner. He regularly works with clients in the areas of stress, weight release, limiting beliefs, anxieties, learning disabilities, pain management, and relationship issues.
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