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It's Time To Get Out
Of Your Own Way:
Why Goal Setting Doesn't Work!
Dear ,
We have all done it before. Sat down at the beginning of the year or after a conference
of some type to craft a list of how our life is going to change.
We come up with grand plans. Some are short term while others are long term.
We have new tools and a new out look.
We can see how our relationships, financial status, and
health is going to change.
We feel great.
The future is looking bright.
And then four days later we are back to our old ways.
Three weeks later we don't even know where our goal list is.
Six months later we are cleaning up our desk and find the
list and get frustrated that our life hasn't changed.
Goal List Aren't The
Problem, You ARE!
That might sound a little harsh, but really it is a good
thing. I promise.
Let me explain...
There is a part of our system that has one goal and one goal
only: To keep us safe.
This is really a great thing. Because of this subconscious part we stay alerted to
possible dangers we face every moment of the day. This becomes problematic when it starts working hard to
protect us from things that aren't real dangers.
Public speaking is perfect example of this. One of deepest fears people feel is to
speak in public, but intellectually we know it is not dangerous. We know we aren't going to die. We talk to people all the time,
but for some reason there is a part of us that prevents us for doing it.
Our system is just trying to keep us safe. The problem is that is keeping us from
dangers that aren't real.
Your System Thinks
Your Goals Are Dangerous
On the surface that statement seems very silly. But let's think this through. Let's take becoming wealthier as our
goal.
This is a great goal.
If we were wealthier we won't have to worry about our bills, we could do
what we wanted when with wanted with whom ever we wanted, and we could share
our wealth to help other.
All of this sounds great, but the whole system isn't on
board.
I want you to think about every wealthy person you have seen
on TV and the movies or all the wealthy people you have read about in
books. With the exception of Daddy
Warbucks from Annie (and a few others) there are no wealthy people in stories
who are good people.
The wealthy are always greedy, mean, and selfish. This makes great story because we love
the plucky underdog working against the wealthy. But because we have heard this story our entire lives there
is a part of our system that believes this to be true.
When we decide to become wealth the part of us that wants to
be safe springs to our rescue. It
says, "You don't want to become wealthy, because wealthy people are mean,
greedy, and they hurt others. You
don't want that."
This is the reason we procrastinate.
We don't procrastinate because we are lazy. We don't procrastinate because we can't
do it. We procrastinate because
the system thinks it is keeping us safe without seeing the long view or even
seeing what is true.
You Can't Think Your
Way Out Of This
The problem with this is we can't talk our system out of its
beliefs. If we could talk our
selves out of these beliefs then we could do all of those things that we know
we can do, but just never get around to doing.
If we could talk ourselves out of these beliefs then I could
walk on stage after thinking "They are not really going to laugh you off
he stage," or I could simply think, "I am not going to die if she says
'No' when I ask her out" and make the call.
But we can't do that.
These beliefs are rooted deep.
But that doesn't mean that can't be uprooted and changed.
Name The Goals! Name
The Fears! Knock Them Out!
I have been working with clients for years around the area
of procrastination and not being able to achieve the goals they want. With the exception of weight release it
is what clients come to me for the most.
(And to be honest weight release problems in most situations are no
different than not reaching your other goals.)
To that end I have created the "The 10 Steps To Getting
Out Of Your Own Way To Get What You Want."
In each of the steps has three parts.
First, we name and refine some part of the goal we
want. The more specific the goal
is the more likely we are going to achieve it. It is one thing to say that
I am going to be wealthy
while it is completely different to say
that I am going to have enough
money so that I never have to worry about my bills again, that I can travel
when I want, and be able to help others reach there goals as well.
The more we know about the goal the easier it is to find our
way to the place we want to be.
Second, we name all the emotions, fears, and limiting
beliefs that are preventing us from reaching each part of our goal. Because these beliefs live in our
subconscious we aren't always aware of what they are. We only know that we are procrastinating.
In this system we are able to dig deep in to the
subconscious and find all the things that are stopping us.
Third, in a step-by-step way we knock this erroneous
limiting beliefs out. Like I said
before, we can't just think our way out of these beliefs. But by being very systematic in naming
each one there are ways we can take them out one at time in a quick and easy
way.
What Is In The 10
Step System
The 10 step system is over 5 hours of audios and videos
which will teach you
- How and why we create limiting beliefs
How to break your goals down in a why to find
every fear and limiting belief that is lurking in your subconscious
- Tools to knock these limiting beliefs out
anytime where. (THIS IS KEY: Notonly will this tool set help you when you are sitting at home working through
your goal list, but when any fear or limiting belief pops to mind in any
situations you will be able to knock it out.)
- How to recognize when limiting belief are
stopping you (because some times we don't even see it)
In addition to the over five hours in instruction you will
also receive a digital work book that will take you through the ten steps. Because you can use this system for any
goal you have when it is time to go after your next goal you will be able to
print out a new copy of the workbook that will easily walk you through the
steps.
More Tools To Help
You Achieve Your Goals
I want you to be successful. I want to you achieve your goals. In working with clients I have seen a number of very common
reasons that we (and I use we because I do it too) self sabotage
ourselves. To that end I am adding
four audio bonuses that you can use to not out these common beliefs and fears:
Resistance To Change
If
there weren't resistance to change we would have already changed. Sometimes this resistance has nothing
to do with the specific change, but about change in general. When we change we have to react in
different ways, we face new challenges, and people see us differently. Sure our lives might not be perfect,
but I know what to expect with how things are right now. Change might bring new obstacles that
are unpredictable and harder. This
audio will make you more comfortable with change. ($13.77 value)
Being Open To The Process
It
can be scary to think that we are going to uncover the limiting beliefs and
fear we have. It is kind of like
what is under the bed. We know it
is dirty, but if we don't look at it then we don't have know how dirty it
really is. Any journey of
self-discovery can be scary. This
audio will help you to know that is safe and good to do this investigation and
work. ($13.77 value)
Believing You Are Worthy of Better
Almost
daily I talk to clients who don't believe they are worthy of a better
life. They believe they have more
than their share, that they have squander what they have been given, or that
they just aren't worthy of better.
If you don't think you are worthy of better you are never going to get
better. This audio helps you
recognize your worthiness ($13.77 value)
Permission To Be Easy With Yourself
We
are our own worse critics. We are
harder on ourselves than anyone else ever could be. It is good that we want better, but we can be really
destructive when we go after ourselves.
In this process of transformation it is important that we are easy with
ourselves. This doesn't mean that
we are slacking and not trying, but that we are looking at ourselves with love
and care. In this spirit of love
and care we will be able to move forward faster. ($13.77 value)
In addition to the $55.08 in free audios I have one other
gift for you.
When we are doing change work of any sort sometimes we are
just too close to ourselves to see what is going on. I know this is true for myself. That is why sometimes we need outside help (I know I
do). In addition to the free
audios I want you to have $40 off a one-on-one phone session with me.
Not only will you get the chance to knock out many limiting
beliefs and fears, but you will also leave the session with many more things
that you will be able to work on your own from an out side perspective.
That is over $95 in bonuses
A Major SALE For
Pre-Orders
When I do this process with clients it is normally done over
six to ten sessions depending on the size of the change. At this point in my practice that is
between $570 and $950 in fees.
When this system is released to the public May 1st it is
going to sell for $139.95
I am doing a special pre-release price while I am putting
the final touches on the system. I
am going to offer it to my list for 25% off the list price. You will receive a pre-release price of
$104.97
Totally Guaranteed
I love this system.
I use the steps all the time.
I used it when I re-organized my office. I am using it right now as I am working on my largest
product launch ever.
(Don't tell my friends this!) I use this system when I am
talking to my friends. They think
I am giving them the best advice in the world and I am just working them
through this system and they don't even know it.
I believe in this system that I want you to spend three
months with the system. If it is
not helping you to knock out your limiting beliefs and vaulting you towards
your goal I want you to have all your money back.
All you need to do is send me an e-mail saying, "I
tried it and it didn't work for me."
No questions asked I will give you a full refund!
AND you can keep all five bonuses (even the discount off of
the session).
Act Before May 1st
Once the product is launched it will available only at the
full price.
Which mean you need to act now!
To pre-order the system all you need to do is go to:
Order Now!
These steps have vaulted my clients and myself towards our
goals. I know it will work for
you.
Blessings,
gene
PS: Image what it is going to be like not to be held back by
your limiting beliefs.
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Gene Monterastelli |
Gene Monterastelli is a Baltimore based EFT practitioner. He regularly works with clients in the areas of stress, weight release, limiting beliefs, anxieties, learning disabilities, pain management, and relationship issues.
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