[Tapping/EFT Q & A] - Doing It Like Our Parents (+ Needing to be prefect and being a victim)
Published: Fri, 05/27/11
Greetings from Victoria, BC. My ride in from the airport
proclaimed it "to be the most beautiful place on earth" at least a
dozen during our short drive in. It is a beautiful place and it is
nice to be back.
There are three free resources featured on the site this week.
1) One thing that I am hearing a lot in clients sessions recently
is about beliefs that have been passes along from parents. So of
these beliefs are about the world ("there is a scarcity of money")
while others are about my clients themselves ("you will never be
good enough"). The beliefs we get from our parents run very deep.
They are given to use when we are very young and carry lots of
weight because of the source. Because of these beliefs can be
particularly hard to root out.
http://tappingqanda.com/2011/05/this-is-just-like-my-motherfather/?sc=nw
2) We all want to do a good job, but sometimes we feel we need to
be prefect. AND if we are not prefect it is going to be a waste of
time and effort. When this happens are need for perfection can
keep us stuck. Here is a simple way to move from that stuck place.
http://tappingqanda.com/2011/05/reasons-that-stop-us-from-trying/?sc=nw
3) It is very easy to get stuck in the question "Why?" Why do I
have it so hard? Why can't I get ahead? Why does it work for
everyone else and not me? When this happens we can get stuck.
This weeks TapAlong audio we tap from moving from being stuck is
what is wrong and moving to what is possible.
http://tappingqanda.com/2011/05/tapalong-21a-mediocrity-and-greatness/?sc=nw
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