Good morning,

Over the last three weeks the podcast has emphasized how important it is for you to be making Pro-You Choices, where you are consciously taking action to take care of yourself.

So far we have covered:

• Turning down invitations to social events because you have too much on your plate
• Giving yourself permission to say "I don't know"
• Putting yourself first

To complete this four-part series and to get 2019 off on the right foot, today's podcast is about one of my favorite concepts: Just because it is a problem, doesn't mean that it is your problem.

On one level, that is a completely obvious statement.

On another level, I am willing to bet that when things go wrong in the lives of your loved ones, you are one of the first people they turn to AND there is an implicit expectation that you will fix it the problem.

It doesn't have to be this way!

This week I have a story for you about how I was able to change a relationship where I was always being called on to fix everything, plus some tapping to make it easier to create clearer boundaries in your relationships so that you aren't expected to clean up everything for everyone.

As always, I have included a tap-along audio and a printable tapping script.

Stop taking care of everyone else: http://tappingqanda.com/345

If you missed any of the earlier parts you can get all four tap-along audios and printable tapping scripts here: https://tappingqanda.com/tag/pro-you-series

I hope you have a great day,

Gene

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