The saddest statement a client has ever made to me

Published: Mon, 01/28/19

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Good morning,

One of the reasons that I love doing client work is I get to see my clients at their best and their worst.

What I mean by "their worst" is that I see them at their deepest points of struggle. When they are being truly honest with themselves about how they see the world and themselves, as well as how their past has impacted their lives in big and small ways.

It is an honor to walk with people at these moments.

I also see them at their best. In those moments where transformation takes hold, or when they find clarity about what is possible in their lives. Ending calls like those leaves me on such a high!

Just because I enjoy the work doesn't always mean it is easy. There are moments of genuine pain, there are times when clarity doesn't come quickly, and there are times when it feels like change will never come.

My job as a practitioner is to help my clients to reframe their issues, put their transformations in context, act as their cheerleader when things are going well, and being a light of hope for them to help them to continue doing the work so they can experience the transformation they want.

But what happens when there is no more hope?

Even in the moments of deepest despair, we are able to find small slivers of hope to keep us moving on. Except when that doesn't happen...

This is a conversation that I still think about all the time. I was talking to a potential client about working together. When I have these conversations they are sometimes about money and whether or not it is affordable, and sometimes the conversations are about whether we would work well together.

This particular conversation with a client I'll call "Anna" wasn't about either of those. It was about hope.

Anna and I were talking about the possibility of tapping being able to help her. She said something along the lines of:

"Tapping is my very last hope. I have tried everything else and nothing works. To be honest, hope that this could be better is the only reason I can get out of bed in the morning. I'm glad there is the possibility that tapping might help me.

The problem is, what if I try tapping and it doesn't work? Then I really have nothing left. I have no more options and I am stuck with this problem. My last hope is gone. I don't know if I can carry on without hope."

Wow!

Take a moment to go back and reread her quote. (Seriously, do it!)

Intellectually, I can understand why the subconscious (and in this case the conscious) mind would choose this type of protection.

Emotionally, the prospect of hopelessness is devastating.

The problem with hopelessness is that it is a feeling that compounds on itself. What I mean by this is that when we feel hopeless, we only feel despair, and because we are only feeling despair we feel even more hopeless. It becomes a vicious circle of darkness from which it is difficult – and can feel impossible – to break free.

This is one of the reasons I work with a practitioner myself.

You read that right. Although I have been working with clients for over a decade, I still work with a practitioner.

As powerful as tapping is as a self-healing tool, it can't all be done on our own. We need people who aren't in the middle of our emotions to help us to see more clearly. This is especially true when we find ourselves in a spiral of despair.

When we can't see the light of hope ourselves, we need someone who will help us to find that beacon and guide us forward.

That is why I have created a new program called "The Core Sixteen". Not only is it an opportunity for you to walk with someone who will guide you through the healing process, it's an opportunity to keep moving forward when you are losing connection with your hope and motivation.

16 Core Issues
Over the last few months I have been reviewing my client notes and paying very close attention to my client calls and I have been able to identify the 16 core issues that come up repeatedly for my clients.

These core issues fall into three basic categories relationships (with father, mother, etc.), time of life (early childhood, childhood, teen years, etc), and emotions (confidence, anger, jealousy, etc,)

The Core Sixteen will take each of these issues, one at time, creating healing and transformation. And by transforming each of these core issues, you will transform your life.

Here is what is included
To help you to work through the 16 core issues, I have provided a three-pronged approach.

16 One-On-One Sessions With Gene
We will work together on all 16 issues, taking one issue at a time. By focusing on each issue, we will ensure that we find our way to the core of each one. (If you want) these sessions can be recorded so that you can go back and tap along to them again. ($4000 value)

Issue Assessment
Before each one-on-one session you will be given an issue assessment, which will help us to move quickly to the core of the issue once we are on the phone. I will also teach you how I specifically use these assessments to unearth the root causes of your struggles. You will be able to reuse this assessment in the future as a way of unearthing hidden root causes on your own. ($200 value)

32 Tap-Along Audios (plus written scripts)
For each of the 16 issues you will receive two tap-along audios that you will be able to go back to as often as you like. You will also receive a written version of the scripts so that you can access these resources any time you want, in the format that you find most helpful. ($400 value)

By using this three-pronged approach you will be able to do preparatory work before our sessions, we will work one-on-one to clear the issue, and you will have resources after the fact to reinforce and continue to clear the issue afterwards.

Additional Bonuses
In order to help your transformation process along I am including three bonuses to expand your tapping tool box and give you tools you can use daily to continue your transformation.

  • Advanced Tapping Techniques - In this 8-hour audio training course I teach you exactly how I tap, the tools I use in client sessions and when I am working on my own, and how to know which tools to use in each situation. ($497 value)
  • 10-Question Process - I use this process for tasks as small as rearranging my office and as big as creating a new product line. In over 3 hours of audios I will teach you the process so you can use it again and again to figure out your next steps and name the core issues getting in your way. ($187 value)
  • 9 Months Access To The Ruach Center - The Ruach Center is a membership website that has over 240 tapping audios and hours of instruction to help you to eliminate self-sabotage and take action. Every morning you will receive email with a link to a new tap-along audio to help you start off your day on the right foot. ($97 value)

The private sessions, assessments, tap-along audios, and all the bonuses are over $5350 in value, but you can sign up for the The Core Sixteen for only $4000.

That is 35% discount off the full price.

You can also join the program with 4 monthly installments of $1099 or 8 monthly instalments of $575.

Impacting Every Part Of Your Life
Your emotional core impacts aspects of your life both consciously and unconsciously. This is your opportunity to heal and transform your emotional core in a systematic, step-by-step way.

When you do this, your daily life will be much better and in difficult times, you will respond in an emotionally healthy way.

Start transforming your emotional core today: https://tappingqanda.com/core-16-sign-up/

If you have any questions about the program, please let me know by replying to this email. If I can't answer your question in an email, we can get on the phone to discuss any questions you may have.

Only 5 People
I have one final thought for you to consider. For me to be fully present to my current clients and to be able to serve the people who join this program at this time, I only have room in my schedule for 5 people.

This isn't some fake marketing trick where I am saying there is only a limited number to create a sense of scarcity. There really are only 5 spots and I have set my online shopping cart to close after those 5 spots are filled.

If you want to do this, you need to act now.

This is your chance for an entirely new internal emotional life. What are you waiting for?

Start the transformation now: https://tappingqanda.com/core-16-sign-up/

OR if you would like to have a conversation about the program, reply to this email and we will find time to answer all your questions.

Blessings,

Gene

PS: Imagine how powerful it will be to transform yourself from the inside out. This type of work will touch every part of your life. Join me today: https://tappingqanda.com/core-16-sign-up/

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