Good morning,

Last Friday morning my first two client calls were about the same issue, even though the details were totally different. Both clients were facing a big decision and weren't clear about their best course of action.

The first call was with "Debbie". A relationship with an old friend was falling apart because her friend was no longer treating the friendship as important. Debbie reported that she felt mad, taken advantage of, and sad at the prospect of losing a connection that she valued in her life.

As we were investigating the part that felt hurt and frustrated, she shared with me the revenge fantasies that were running through her mind, which included trashing her friend’s apartment.

Debbie, in a million years, would never (and I mean NEVER) trash someone's apartment. It was just the strong emotions talking.

After we did some tapping she said, "I no longer feel like trashing his place". After a little more tapping she had a clear idea of how she wanted to move forward with the relationship.

My second call was with "Jeff". Jeff's choices were more straightforward. He was weighing up whether or not to leave town for a new job. Instead of frustration and anger, he was struggling with anxiety about what would be lost if he moved, and how it would be impossible to take the choice back after it was made.

Even though the choices and emotions that Debbie and Jeff were grappling with were very different, the approach with the tapping we did was exactly the same.

I want you to have access to that process as well.

The process is simple. You will only need to listen to the instruction once to master the process. The reason people don't tap is often that they don't know where to begin or what phrases to tap on.

If you can talk about the options you are facing, it will be a piece of cake to tap for them with this process.

Learn the process here: http://tappingqanda.com/?p=12790

I would love to hear how the process shapes the way you see your problem and the possible choices. If you use it, please share your experience in the comment section on the website.

Have a great day,

Gene